There is really no secret to being a winner, just letting yourself use the common sense you are born with.
There are certain character traits that are ultimately the responsibility of the individual to develop. There are 8 of them presented here in this 3 minute video:
If you found the 8 key factors something you could work around or get someone else to do for you, you can opt out of our forum now. We cannot help. But if one or more of those traits brought you to our site, then we can make a difference for you, if you are willing to put some work into it.